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Endless Endurance: Tips for Survival in the Music Industry

I’ve stood backstage beside artists I grew up listening to. I’ve watched my name rise next to chart-toppers with whom I once only dreamed of sharing a playlist. But here’s the truth: getting there is hard. Staying there is even harder. The music industry can wear you down, test your limits, and stretch your heart in ways you didn’t know were possible.

I’m an independent musician. I’ve never expected a label to handle my path or a manager to map out my every move. I built this on long nights, homemade merch, and songs scribbled on napkins. Along the way, I’ve learned a few things that helped me keep going. These aren’t the usual “stay positive” or “network more” tips. These are real-world survival tools.

  1. Keep your circle small—and real. You don’t need a hundred people in your corner. You need five who will tell you the truth and show up when it counts. Look for those who cheer you on when no one’s watching. The music world is loud, but your people will keep you grounded.
  2. Create your own momentum. Don’t wait for the right manager, the perfect label, or the “big break.” Book your own gigs. Release your music even if it’s not flawless. Keep moving. Motion creates motion. The opportunities you dream about often come when you’re already doing the work.
  3. Protect your creativity like it’s sacred. The music industry will try to make you fit a mold. Stay curious, but stay honest. Don’t let trends steal your voice. Write songs you believe in, even if they scare you—especially if they scare you.
  4. Learn how to rest without quitting. You’ll get tired. Burnout is real, especially when you’re managing your own career. But taking a break isn’t failure—it’s wisdom. Step back when you need to, even if for a few days. Refilling your creative tank matters more than you think.
  5. Handle your business like an artist—and like a boss. Get good at reading contracts. Understand your royalties. Track your spending. It may not feel glamorous, but it’s what keeps you free. Independence is power, but only if you manage it wisely.
  6. Celebrate the small wins. Sometimes, it’s easy to overlook the beauty in progress. A sold-out local show. A kind message from a stranger who heard your song. A new lyric that feels like magic. These moments matter. Don’t wait for a massive record deal to feel proud.
  7. Build a body of work, not a moment. Virality fades. But a strong catalog of honest, heartfelt songs—that lasts. Keep creating. Let your music tell the story of your journey, not just one chapter.

I’m still learning. Still growing. Still figuring it out. But I know this: if you love the music more than the noise, you’ll find a way to keep going.

And to every music mom reading this: you already know what endurance looks like. You’ve lived it. So keep singing, keep writing, and keep showing up. Your story’s just getting started.

 Posted on April 23, 2025 by

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From Frost to Flourish: 20 Songs That Sing of Spring

Spring has finally arrived, and it feels like a breath of fresh air after a long, cold winter. The heavy coats are coming off, the sun is hanging around a little longer, and tiny bursts of green are breaking through the gray. After months of short days and chilly nights, spring feels like a rebirth—a reminder that light and warmth always come back around.

For me, nothing pairs better with this feeling than music. The right songs have a way of matching our mood and lifting us higher. With that in mind, I put together a playlist that captures the spirit of the season. These 20 songs from yesteryear celebrate hope, renewal, and the joy of starting fresh.

Whether you’re planting a garden, driving with the windows down, or just soaking in the sunshine, these tracks will help you welcome spring with open arms.

1. “Here Comes the Sun” – The Beatles (1969)

This classic track brings warmth and optimism, much like the first rays of spring sunshine.

2. “Walking on Sunshine” – Katrina and the Waves (1983)

An upbeat anthem that mirrors the joy of longer days and blooming flowers.

3. “I Can See Clearly Now” – Johnny Nash (1972)

A soulful tune about overcoming obstacles and looking forward to brighter days.

4. “Morning Has Broken” – Cat Stevens (1971)

A gentle song that celebrates the beauty of a new day, akin to the freshness of spring mornings.

5. “Brand New Day” – Van Morrison (1970)

This track encapsulates the feeling of starting anew, a perfect match for the season.

6. “You Are the Sunshine of My Life” – Stevie Wonder (1973)

A heartfelt expression of love and appreciation, much like the gratitude we feel during spring.

7. “Peaceful Easy Feeling” – Eagles (1972)

A laid-back song that evokes the calm and serenity of a spring afternoon.

8. “The 59th Street Bridge Song (Feelin’ Groovy)” – Simon & Garfunkel (1966)

An ode to taking it slow and enjoying life’s simple pleasures, reminiscent of leisurely spring days.

9. “Love Is in the Air” – John Paul Young (1977)

Captures the essence of spring romance and the excitement of new beginnings.

10. “Let Your Love Flow” – The Bellamy Brothers (1976)

An uplifting tune that encourages openness and joy, aligning with the spirit of the season.

11. “Don’t Stop” – Fleetwood Mac (1977)

A motivational song that inspires looking forward to the future with hope.

12. “Good Day Sunshine” – The Beatles (1966)

Another Beatles classic that radiates positivity and the joy of sunny days.

13. “Dancing in the Moonlight” – King Harvest (1972)

A feel-good track that captures the magic of spring evenings.

14. “Beautiful Day” – U2 (2000)

While slightly outside our time frame, this song’s message of appreciation fits the theme perfectly.

15. “Sunshine on My Shoulders” – John Denver (1971)

A gentle melody that celebrates the warmth and comfort of the sun.

16. “Lovely Day” – Bill Withers (1977)

An affirmation of positivity that aligns with the uplifting nature of spring.

17. “Here Comes My Baby” – Cat Stevens (1967)

A cheerful tune that mirrors the excitement of new love and opportunities.

18. “Joy to the World” – Three Dog Night (1970)

An exuberant song that spreads happiness, much like the season itself.

19. “Put a Little Love in Your Heart” – Jackie DeShannon (1969)

Encourages kindness and compassion, values that blossom in spring.

20. “What a Wonderful World” – Louis Armstrong (1967)

A timeless classic that reminds us to appreciate the beauty around us.

This playlist is a celebration of spring’s promise and the enduring power of music to uplift and inspire. I hope you enjoy these tunes as you embrace the season’s renewal.

 Posted on April 11, 2025 by

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More Than a Melody: What Being a Music Mom Means to Me

Being a music mom is one of the great joys of my life. It’s messy and beautiful. Loud and quiet. Sometimes it’s involved running late to rehearsal with snacks in hand. Other times it’s been writing a song at midnight after the kids finally fall asleep. It’s not always glamorous—but it’s always full of heart.

This Women’s History Month, I’ve been thinking a lot about what it means to be a woman in music. More specifically, what it means to be a mother who makes music. A mother who sings lullabies at bedtime and writes lyrics during naptime. A woman who carries melodies in her head while folding laundry and finds rhythm in the clatter of dishes.

Music isn’t something I do on the side. It’s woven into everything. It’s part of how I process motherhood, womanhood, and all the messy in-between moments. Some days, I feel like I’m barely holding it together. Other days, a single song makes it all make sense.

Being a music mom means learning how to be creative in the chaos. From writing lyrics in the notes app on a phone while consoling a child to recording rough demos in the car during soccer practice. I’ve even had full-on vocal warm-ups interrupted by spilled juice boxes and sibling squabbles. And yet—I keep singing. I keep writing. I keep going.

Music helps me stay connected to myself. It reminds me that I’m not just the keeper of routines and to-do lists. I’m also an artist. A storyteller. A woman with a voice. Being a mom doesn’t take that away. In fact, it deepens it.

When I see my kids dancing to one of my songs or strumming their little guitars, I know they’re watching. They’re learning that creativity matters. That women’s voices matter. That moms can make music, too.

This month, I think about all the women who came before us—those who paved the way in music while juggling careers, expectations, and doubt. Women like Carole King, Trisha Yearwood, Tina Turner, and Loretta Lynn. Women who proved that you don’t have to choose between being a mother and being a musician. You can be both.

Being a music mom means sharing stories. Not just mine, but ours. The songs that rise out of exhaustion and joy. The harmonies that come from bedtime snuggles and broken sleep. The quiet strength of lullabies and the fierce power of protest songs.

It’s not perfect. But it’s mine. And I’m grateful.

As Women’s History Month comes to a close, I carry its message with me into every month ahead. I carry the strength of the women before me. I carry the beauty of a life made of music and motherhood. And I carry the hope that our daughters—and their daughters—will keep singing, too.

 Posted on March 31, 2025 by

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10 Anthems for Women’s History Month

March is Women’s History Month, and as a music mom, I’m feeling this one deeply. Music by women has been the soundtrack to so many moments in my life—late-night parenting sessions, big decisions, long drives, and dance parties in the kitchen with my kids. Female artists have a way of telling the truth, especially when it’s hard to say out loud. Their songs lift us, push us, comfort us, and remind us we’re not alone.

Here are 10 anthems that inspire me, and I hope they’ll inspire you, too.

1. “I Will Survive” – Gloria Gaynor

This one’s a classic for a reason. Gloria Gaynor gave us a song that lives and breathes resilience. It’s the kind of anthem that makes you stand taller, sing louder, and push through anything.

2. “Respect” – Aretha Franklin

No anthem list would be complete without this powerhouse. Aretha didn’t ask for respect—she demanded it. This song is bold, brilliant, and as relevant today as it was in 1967.

3. “You Don’t Own Me” – Lesley Gore

This one gives me chills every time. Lesley Gore recorded it when she was just 17, but the message is timeless. It’s a song about independence, ownership of self, and not backing down.

4. “Man! I Feel Like a Woman!” – Shania Twain

Fun, fierce, and full of attitude, this one always boosts my mood. Shania reminds us that being a woman can be wild, powerful, and joyful. I blast this one while folding laundry or heading out with friends.

5. “Girls Just Want to Have Fun” – Cyndi Lauper

Cyndi gave us permission to live loud and enjoy ourselves. Underneath the catchy beat is a message about freedom and choice. It’s a reminder that joy is a form of rebellion, too.

6. “Roar” – Katy Perry

This song helped me find my voice during a hard season. It’s about speaking up, reclaiming your power, and not letting fear keep you quiet. And yes, I’ve sung it at full volume in the car.

7. “Run the World (Girls)” – Beyoncé

A celebration of women’s strength in every form. Beyoncé’s anthem is powerful, energetic, and unapologetically bold. It reminds us of how much we carry—and how much we conquer.

8. “The Pill” – Loretta Lynn

This one broke barriers. In 1975, Loretta sang about reproductive rights when few others dared. It was controversial, honest, and paved the way for more open conversations.

9. “Stronger (What Doesn’t Kill You)” – Kelly Clarkson

Kelly nailed the comeback anthem. This song speaks to heartbreak, healing, and coming out the other side stronger. I’ve leaned on it more than once, and I know I’m not alone.

10. “You’re So Vain” – Carly Simon

Carly gave us the ultimate mic-drop moment. Smart, cool, and cutting in all the right ways, it’s a masterclass in turning heartache into power.

These songs are more than just music. They’re declarations. They’re reminders. They’re part of the reason I love being a music mom—because I get to pass these anthems down. This Women’s History Month, I’m playing them loud, singing along, and reminding myself (and my kids) that our voices matter. Always.

 Posted on March 24, 2025 by

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Women Who Changed Music History

March is Women’s History Month, a time to celebrate the pioneers who shaped the world. In music, countless women have broken barriers, challenged norms, and created sounds that continue to inspire. I know they inspire me every single day. Their voices changed the industry, their stories redefined success, and their impact still echoes today.

Here are ten groundbreaking women who reshaped music history and left behind legacies that continue to inspire generations. I listen to—and sing—their songs on a daily basis, and I’m sure you do too.

Aretha Franklin – The Queen of Soul

Aretha Franklin didn’t just sing—she commanded attention. Her voice carried both power and purpose, making her an unstoppable force in soul and R&B. With Respect, she turned a simple song into an anthem for empowerment. She was the first woman inducted into the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame, proving that soul music would never be the same.

Joni Mitchell – A Songwriting Genius

Joni Mitchell’s lyrics read like poetry. She captured emotion in a way few songwriters ever have. Her 1971 album Blue set a new standard for personal storytelling in music. She blended folk, jazz, and rock, creating a style entirely her own.

Patsy Cline – A Country Music Pioneer

Patsy Cline’s voice was rich, smooth, and filled with emotion. With hits like Crazy and Walkin’ After Midnight, she redefined country music and made crossover success possible for female artists. She paved the way for future generations of women in country music.

Tina Turner – The Definition of Strength

Tina Turner’s journey was one of resilience. She overcame hardship, reinvented herself, and became one of the biggest rock stars of all time. Her 1984 album Private Dancer proved that reinvention has no age limit. Her electrifying performances and unmistakable voice made her an icon.

Billie Holiday – The Voice of Emotion

Billie Holiday sang with raw honesty. Her song Strange Fruit became one of the most haunting protest songs in history. Her voice carried both pain and beauty, making her one of the most unforgettable figures in jazz.

Stevie Nicks – Rock’s Mystical Icon

Stevie Nicks brought magic to rock music. As Fleetwood Mac’s frontwoman and as a solo artist, she proved that women could be powerful, poetic, and mysterious. Songs like Rhiannon and Landslide defined a generation and continue to inspire.

Dolly Parton – A Country Music Trailblazer

Dolly Parton is more than a musician—she’s a storyteller, businesswoman, and legend. Her songwriting changed country music, with hits like Jolene and I Will Always Love You standing the test of time. She built an empire based on talent, generosity, and authenticity.

Carole King – The Woman Behind the Hits

Before she stepped into the spotlight, Carole King wrote hit songs for other artists. Then, Tapestry changed everything. The album proved that personal songwriting could connect on a massive scale. Her work redefined pop music and influenced generations of artists.

Madonna – The Queen of Reinvention

Madonna pushed boundaries, challenged expectations, and refused to be put in a box. She controlled her own image, experimented with sound, and proved that pop stars could be both powerful and provocative. Her influence still dominates the music industry today.

Whitney Houston – The Voice of a Generation

Whitney Houston had a voice like no other. Every note she sang felt effortless, whether in power ballads or pop hits. Her version of I Will Always Love You became one of the best-selling singles of all time. She set the bar for vocalists everywhere.

These women shaped music history, broke barriers, and redefined what was possible. Their voices, talent, and determination changed the world. As we celebrate Women’s History Month, we honor their legacies and recognize the impact of every woman in music—past, present, and future.

 Posted on March 13, 2025 by

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10 Tips for Making It Through the Rest of Winter

Winter has a way of dragging on. The holidays are over, the days still feel too short, and the cold just won’t quit. It’s easy to feel stuck, counting down the days until spring. But instead of wishing winter away, what if we found ways to embrace it?

On that note, here are 10 ways to push through the final stretch of winter with warmth, creativity, and a little bit of joy.

1. Find a Creative Project

Winter is the perfect time to start something new. Pick up an instrument, write a song, or paint something just for fun. Creativity keeps the mind engaged and brings color to the gray days.

2. Embrace the Cozy

Lean into the season. Light candles, wrap yourself in soft blankets, and sip something warm. Hygge, the Danish concept of cozy living, is all about making the most of the slower, quieter months.

3. Get Outside (Even When It’s Cold)

Fresh air changes everything. Even a short walk can boost your mood and shake off the winter blues. Bundle up, breathe deep, and let nature do its thing.

4. Move Your Body

Exercise doesn’t have to be intense. Stretch, dance in the kitchen, or try a new workout. Moving, even just a little, improves energy and keeps the winter sluggishness away.

5. Make Plans to Look Forward To

Plan something fun, even if it’s small. A weekend road trip, a movie night with friends, or a new book to dive into—having something to anticipate makes the days feel less repetitive.

6. Brighten Your Space

Winter can feel dark and heavy. Open the curtains, add some fresh flowers, or rearrange a room to make it feel new. Light and small changes make a big difference.

7. Listen to Uplifting Music

Music changes the mood instantly. Make a playlist full of songs that energize, inspire, or bring a little warmth to your day. Sometimes, all it takes is the right song to shift your perspective.

8. Try Something New

Learning something new shakes off winter boredom. Try a new recipe, experiment with a different genre of music, or start a creative challenge. Novelty brings excitement when the season feels stale.

9. Stay Connected

Winter can feel isolating. Call a friend, write a letter, or set up a coffee date. Connection makes the season feel less lonely and reminds us that we’re not in this alone.

10. Remember: Spring Is Coming

Even on the coldest days, remember that winter is temporary. The seasons always change. The flowers will bloom again, and the warmth will return. Hold on to that thought, and keep going.

The last stretch of winter can feel endless, but it doesn’t have to be miserable. With a little intention and creativity, we can make the most of this time instead of just waiting for it to pass.

It might seem hard to believe while you’re shoveling out from yet another snowstorm, but spring is coming. Until then, let’s find ways to make these days count.

 Posted on March 1, 2025 by

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How to Teach Kids to Stand Up for Themselves (Without Being a Jerk)

Raising kind, confident kids is a balancing act. We want them to be compassionate, but we also want them to stand up for themselves. The challenge? Teaching them to be assertive without crossing the line into rudeness or aggression. It’s a tricky skill, but one that will serve them for life.

Here’s how to help your kids find their voice—while still being kind and respectful.

Teach the Difference Between Assertive and Aggressive
Some kids hesitate to speak up because they don’t want to be mean. Others think standing up for themselves means getting loud or confrontational. Teach them the difference. Assertiveness means speaking up with confidence, not with anger. It means setting boundaries without tearing others down.

Model It in Everyday Life
Kids learn by watching. If they see you speaking respectfully but firmly—whether returning an incorrect order at a restaurant or addressing a problem at work—they’ll follow your lead. Let them see how you handle tough conversations with patience and confidence.

Help Them Practice Speaking Up
Standing up for yourself is a skill, and like any skill, it takes practice. Role-play different scenarios with your child. Help them find words that are clear and direct but not harsh. Simple phrases like “I don’t like that” or “Please stop” are great places to start.

Encourage Them to Use “I” Statements
Instead of blaming or accusing, teach your child to express how they feel. Saying “You’re being mean” might lead to more conflict. But saying, “I don’t like being talked to that way,” sets a boundary without escalating the situation.

Teach Them When to Walk Away
Not every situation requires a big response. Sometimes, the best way to stand up for yourself is to remove yourself from a negative situation. Let your child know it’s okay to walk away from people who don’t treat them well. Strength isn’t just about speaking up—it’s about knowing when to disengage.

Encourage Confidence, Not Arrogance
A child who believes in themselves will have an easier time standing up for what’s right. But confidence isn’t about putting others down. Teach them that real strength comes from kindness, patience, and self-respect—not from proving they’re better than someone else.

Show Them How to Handle Criticism
Kids will face criticism in life, and they need to know how to handle it. Teach them to listen, decide if the feedback is helpful, and respond appropriately. If it’s constructive, they can learn from it. If it’s just mean-spirited, they can let it go.

Teach Them Empathy While Setting Boundaries
Standing up for yourself doesn’t mean ignoring other people’s feelings. Help your child see both sides of a situation. They can say, “I understand that you’re upset, but I don’t like being treated this way.” This shows strength while also respecting others.

Remind Them That It’s Okay to Ask for Help
Kids don’t have to handle everything on their own. If they’re dealing with bullying, peer pressure, or unfair treatment, they should feel comfortable talking to a parent, teacher, or trusted friend. Knowing when to ask for support is part of being strong.

Reinforce That Their Voice Matters
Above all, kids need to know that what they say—and how they feel—matters. When they speak up, listen. Validate their experiences. Show them that their words have power—and that standing up for themselves is always worth it.

    Helping kids learn to be assertive without being unkind takes patience and practice, but it’s one of the most important skills we can teach them. When they learn to stand tall, speak clearly, and treat others with respect, they’ll be prepared to handle whatever life throws their way. And that’s something to be proud of.

     Posted on February 8, 2025 by

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    10 Lessons I’ve Learned from the California Wildfires

    The recent wildfires in and around Los Angeles have been devastating. They’ve left a mind-boggling amount of destruction in their wake, and sometimes it all seems too much to take.

    Yet, even amidst the ashes, there are powerful lessons to be learned—about resilience, community, and the strength of the human spirit. As heartbreaking as these events have been, they remind us of our capacity to adapt, rebuild, and support one another.

    Here are some things I’ve realized as my family, friends, and community members have fought the flames. I hope these lessons provide some comfort and remind you that even the most troubling times are fleeting.

    1. Nature is Unpredictable

    Wildfires ignite quickly and spread without warning, reminding us of nature’s power and unpredictability. This teaches us the importance of remaining alert and prepared for sudden life changes.

    2. Community Matters

    In the face of destruction, communities show their strength. Neighbors help neighbors, strangers become allies, and support pours in from unexpected places. These moments highlight the importance of connection and compassion.

    3. Preparation Saves Lives

    Having a plan in place can make all the difference. Knowing evacuation routes, assembling emergency supplies, and staying informed are critical steps in protecting yourself and your family during a crisis.

    4. Resilience is Key

    The ability to bounce back after a loss defines our strength. Watching people rebuild their lives, homes, and communities after the wildfires is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit.

    5. Caring for Our Environment

    Wildfires underscore the importance of environmental stewardship. Managing forests, reducing fire risks, and addressing climate change are vital to preventing similar tragedies in the future.

    6. Appreciate First Responders

    Firefighters and emergency responders risk their lives to protect others. Their courage and dedication are reminders of the importance of supporting and valuing those who put themselves in harm’s way for the greater good.

    7. Economic Recovery Takes Time

    Wildfires have a lasting economic impact, affecting businesses, families, and entire communities. This reminds us to support local businesses and help neighbors recover in the aftermath of disaster.

    8. Mental Health Matters

    Traumatic events like wildfires can take a toll on mental health. Seeking help, talking about feelings, and supporting one another emotionally are essential parts of the recovery process.

    9. Adaptability is Essential

    As wildfires become more frequent, adapting to a changing world is necessary. Whether it’s through new building practices, policy changes, or lifestyle adjustments, being flexible and proactive is key.

    10. Gratitude Goes a Long Way

    Even in loss, there is room for gratitude. The wildfires remind us to cherish what we have—from loved ones to the small comforts of daily life. Taking nothing for granted keeps us grounded and hopeful.

    While the scars of the wildfires will likely take years to heal, the lessons they leave behind are immediate and lasting. They remind us of what truly matters: our relationships, our resilience, and our ability to face challenges head-on. Let these lessons guide us as we move forward, rebuilding stronger and more connected than ever before.

    I hope everyone who’s been affected by these fires remembers that we’re all in this together—and that things will eventually get better.

     Posted on January 16, 2025 by

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    10 Songs That Capture the Spirit of Christmas

    Christmas is a season of joy, love, and reflection. It’s a time to connect with loved ones, cherish memories, and embrace the magic in the air. I know you’ll agree: music plays a huge part in this season. It reminds us of the lessons and values that make the holidays so special.

    On that note, I’ve put together 10 songs that perfectly capture the spirit of Christmas. Each one contains a heartfelt message to carry through the season. I hope you enjoy these tunes as much as I do.

    1. “It’s Beginning to Look a Lot Like Christmas” by Michael Bublé

    Michael Bublé’s modern rendition of this holiday classic sets the scene for the season. It reminds us to find joy in the little things that make Christmas special—twinkling lights, festive decor, and the warm anticipation of the days ahead.

    2. “Hard Candy Christmas” by Dolly Parton

    Dolly’s bittersweet holiday tune highlights resilience and hope. Even in hard times, we can find small joys and reasons to celebrate. This song teaches us to persevere and make the most of what we have.

    3. “Last Christmas” by Wham!

    This 80s pop classic tells a tale of heartbreak but also of moving on. It’s a reminder that the season offers a chance for new beginnings. It’s proof that even in the midst of loss, we can find hope and love.

    4. “Rockin’ Around the Christmas Tree” by Brenda Lee

    This upbeat tune is a celebration of fun and festivity. It reminds us to let loose and enjoy the moment. Sometimes, the best way to capture the spirit of Christmas is by dancing and singing with the ones we love.

    5. “Blue Christmas” by Elvis Presley

    While this song reflects loneliness, it also emphasizes the importance of the people who make the holidays complete. It teaches us to value our relationships and cherish the moments we share with others.

    6. “Christmas (Baby Please Come Home)” by Darlene Love

    Darlene Love’s soulful voice captures the longing for connection during the holidays. It’s a powerful reminder of how much we need and appreciate the people we love. The season is about mending fences and reuniting with those who matter most.

    7. “Do You Hear What I Hear?” by Carrie Underwood

    This country rendition of a classic Christmas song emphasizes the power of sharing joy and spreading peace. It reminds us of the importance of listening to each other and coming together for a common purpose.

    8. “Merry Christmas Darling” by The Carpenters

    This tender ballad captures the longing to be with loved ones during the holidays. It reminds us to cherish the people we hold dear and express our love whenever we can.

    9. “Feliz Navidad” by José Feliciano

    This bilingual classic is all about spreading joy and unity. Its simple message of goodwill reminds us that the holidays transcend borders and languages, uniting us in celebration.

    10. “Silent Night” by Faith Hill

    Faith Hill’s rendition of this timeless hymn brings a sense of calm and reverence. It teaches us to pause and reflect on the peace and wonder of the season.

    Each of these songs tells a story and offers a lesson about what makes Christmas so magical. Whether it’s love, hope, or the joy of togetherness, these tunes remind us to focus on the spirit of the season.

    So, grab a cup of cocoa, press play, and let these songs fill your home with the warmth and wonder of Christmas.

     Posted on December 24, 2024 by

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    8 Lessons Winter Teaches Us About Creativity

    Winter, with its stillness and stark beauty, offers countless lessons about creativity. While the colder months might seem like a time for hibernation, they can actually inspire reflection, growth, and the creation of something new. From the way nature adapts to the chill to the quiet opportunities it provides, winter gives us unique insights into the creative process.

    Here are eight lessons about creativity we can take from this magical season, each paired with a song to keep you inspired. Happy winter, friends!

    1. Embrace the Quiet

    Winter reminds us to slow down. The quiet of a snowy day encourages reflection and deep thought. In creativity, moments of silence can spark our best ideas. Take time to sit still, let your mind wander, and listen to what surfaces. Just like Simon & Garfunkel’s “The Sound of Silence”, creativity often blooms in moments of stillness.

    2. Let Things Evolve Slowly

    Winter teaches patience. Snowflakes form one by one, and ice freezes gradually. Creative work often follows the same pattern. Don’t rush your process. Give your ideas time to grow and change. Bruce Springsteen’s “The River” captures this sense of slow, reflective evolution.

    3. Find Beauty in Simplicity

    A snow-covered field or frost on a windowpane shows how simple things can be stunning. Winter reminds us to strip away the unnecessary and focus on the essentials. Creativity thrives when we simplify. Dolly Parton’s “Coat of Many Colors” celebrates this idea beautifully.

    4. Adapt to Your Environment

    Nature adapts to winter in remarkable ways. Trees shed leaves, and animals find shelter. As creators, we can adapt to challenges and use them to fuel our work. Stevie Nicks’ “Landslide” reminds us how change can lead to growth and transformation.

    5. Rest and Recharge

    Winter is a time for hibernation and renewal. Creativity also needs periods of rest to remain fresh and inspired. Don’t feel guilty about taking breaks. Carole King’s “So Far Away” captures the longing for connection that often leads to powerful creative breakthroughs.

    6. Look for Hidden Magic

    Winter hides treasures beneath the snow—like the seeds that will bloom in spring. Creative ideas often start as hidden sparks waiting to be uncovered. Look deeper. Joni Mitchell’s “River” captures the bittersweet search for beauty and meaning in unexpected places.

    7. Appreciate Small Details

    Winter draws attention to the smallest things—a snowflake’s intricate design, the crunch of frost underfoot. Great creativity comes from noticing these small details and weaving them into something bigger. Taylor Swift’s “All Too Well” perfectly exemplifies the power of vivid details in storytelling.

    8. Celebrate Change

    Winter is fleeting. It reminds us that change is constant and necessary for growth. Embrace the ebb and flow of creativity, just as the seasons shift. Fleetwood Mac’s “Don’t Stop” encourages us to keep moving forward, no matter what changes come.

    Winter is so much more than cold, dark, and desolation. The magical season holds countless lessons for those willing to pay attention. Its quiet, slow rhythm encourages us to reflect, adapt, and find inspiration in the little things.

    By leaning into these lessons, we can nurture our creativity and make something truly meaningful—just as nature does every winter.

     Posted on December 16, 2024 by

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    From Kids to Choruses: A Thanksgiving Reflection for Music Moms Everywhere

    Thanksgiving is a time for gratitude, reflection, and—let’s be honest—plenty of pie. But beyond the tempting turkey and those marvelous mashed potatoes, it’s also a season that invites us to pause and take stock of the things that truly matter.

    For us music moms, life often feels like a juggling act. Between our family, work, and creative pursuits, it’s easy to forget to stop and savor the beauty in our everyday lives. Much too easy, in fact.

    This Thanksgiving, I hope you’ll join me in taking a moment to reflect on the unique joys that come from being a music mom and the countless blessings that have come our way.

    The Gift of Creativity

    First and foremost, we have the gift of music itself. Whether it’s a few quiet moments strumming a guitar, singing lullabies to our little ones, or performing onstage, music adds a richness to our lives that’s difficult to describe. It’s a creative outlet, a source of joy, and often a way to connect with others. This Thanksgiving, I suggest we give thanks for the melodies that lift our spirits and the songs that tell our stories.

    The Support of Family and Friends

    As music moms, we’re lucky to have a built-in audience of family and friends who cheer us on—even when we’ve hit our share of bad notes. From kids who proudly sing along to our tunes to partners who encourage our creative dreams, their support really does make all the difference. Let’s take a moment to show gratitude for the people who believe in us, inspire us, and make our lives brighter.

    The Power of Connection

    Music has a way of bringing people together, and as music moms, we get to experience this magic firsthand. Whether it’s bonding with our kids over a favorite song, hosting a family jam session, or performing for a local community, these moments of connection mean so much to us. This Thanksgiving, let’s be thankful for the way music bridges gaps, strengthens relationships, and creates lasting memories.

    The Little Moments That Matter

    As moms, we know that life’s biggest joys often come from the smallest moments—a child humming a tune they heard us play, a quiet morning spent writing lyrics, or the satisfaction of finally finding that missing chord. These little moments are what make the crazy days worthwhile. This Thanksgiving, let’s celebrate those fleeting magical moments.

    The Strength to Keep Going

    Let’s not forget to be grateful for ourselves—for our resilience, creativity, and determination. Balancing the demands of motherhood with the passion for music isn’t always easy, but we show up every day, doing our best to make it work. Thanksgiving is the perfect time to recognize our own strength and give ourselves a little grace.

    As we gather around the table this Thanksgiving, let’s hold on tightly to the gratitude we feel for our unique journey as music moms. Let’s cherish the melodies that shape our lives, the people who uplift us, and the moments that make it all worthwhile. Here’s to a season filled with love, music, and plenty of reasons to give thanks.

     Posted on November 25, 2024 by

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    From Hardships to Hits: 20 Female Musicians Who Turned Struggles into Success

    Let’s face it: The journey to success almost always includes some substantial obstacles. Nobody knows this better than some of music’s most iconic female artists. From personal tragedies to toxic relationships, from constantly changing glass ceilings to a whole lotta sexism, these gifted gals have persevered and thrived. Not only that, but they have also inspired countless others with their resilience and artistry. Including me.

    I could think of literally dozens of women to add to this list, but I’ve settled on these 20 incredible female musicians who overcame significant hurdles to reach the top of their industry. They’re singers. They’re songwriters. They’re performers. But most important, they’re perseverers whose talent, ambition, and fortitude have left an indelible mark on the music world.

    1. Tina Turner

    Known as the “Queen of Rock ‘n’ Roll,” Tina Turner overcame an abusive marriage and financial struggles to achieve worldwide fame. Her triumphant comeback with Private Dancer remains a testament to her strength and talent.

    2. Dolly Parton

    Growing up in poverty in rural Tennessee, Dolly Parton worked tirelessly to build a career that spans music, acting, and philanthropy. Her resilience shines in hits like “Coat of Many Colors,” inspired by her humble beginnings.

    3. Aretha Franklin

    The Queen of Soul overcame personal and professional challenges, including early motherhood and navigating a male-dominated industry, to become a trailblazer for women in music and civil rights.

    4. Stevie Nicks

    Battling addiction and health challenges, Stevie Nicks not only carved out a legendary career with Fleetwood Mac but also succeeded as a solo artist, cementing her status as one of rock’s great storytellers.

    5. Whitney Houston

    Despite her struggles with addiction and personal challenges, Whitney Houston’s unmatched voice and timeless hits like “I Will Always Love You” continue to inspire millions worldwide.

    6. Cher

    Cher defied industry expectations and reinvented herself repeatedly throughout her career, overcoming personal heartbreak and professional setbacks to remain an icon for over six decades.

    7. Madonna

    Faced with criticism and skepticism early in her career, Madonna broke barriers as a woman in music, redefining pop culture with her fearless creativity and unrelenting ambition.

    8. Patti Smith

    Dubbed the “Godmother of Punk,” Patti Smith faced immense loss and financial struggles before her debut album Horses made her a pioneer in the punk and rock scenes.

    9. Carole King

    As a young songwriter, Carole King worked behind the scenes in an industry dominated by men. Her breakout as a solo artist with Tapestry transformed her into a feminist icon.

    10. Joni Mitchell

    Joni Mitchell’s career flourished despite battling polio as a child and later a rare disease that affected her mobility. Her poetic songwriting and artistry remain unparalleled.

    11. Etta James

    Overcoming a turbulent childhood and struggles with addiction, Etta James left a legacy of soulful music that continues to resonate with audiences worldwide.

    12. Joan Jett

    As a woman in rock, Joan Jett faced industry resistance and sexism but persisted to create hits like “I Love Rock ‘n’ Roll” and establish her place in rock music history.

    13. Janis Joplin

    Janis Joplin faced societal judgment for her bold personality and lifestyle. Always relentless, she broke barriers with her raw, emotional performances that redefined women’s roles in rock.

    14. Shania Twain

    After enduring poverty and the loss of her parents at a young age, Shania Twain became a country music superstar, proving that hard work and determination can lead to greatness.

    15. Billie Holiday

    Despite enduring relentless racism and a series of personal struggles, Billie Holiday used her voice to create timeless music, including the groundbreaking protest song “Strange Fruit.”

    16. Karen Carpenter

    Karen Carpenter battled societal expectations and personal health struggles, yet her unique voice and work with The Carpenters continue to touch hearts around the world.

    17. Annie Lennox

    Annie Lennox overcame personal losses and industry challenges to become a celebrated solo artist and advocate for social change, known for her powerful voice and activism.

    18. Reba McEntire

    Reba McEntire turned personal tragedies, including the loss of her bandmates in a plane crash, into strength, continuing her reign as the Queen of Country.

    19. Yoko Ono

    Often vilified in the media, Yoko Ono persevered through criticism to create avant-garde art and music, all while championing peace and individuality.

    20. Barbra Streisand

    Defying early criticism for her unconventional looks and style, Barbra Streisand broke through societal norms to achieve success in music, film, and activism.

    There you have it. Each of these women has a unique story of overcoming adversity, proving that resilience, determination, and talent can transform even the most challenging circumstances into extraordinary achievements. Their journeys remind us that no matter the obstacles, success is always within reach.

     Posted on November 22, 2024 by

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